As we begin the new year, one important focus in counseling is helping scholars build and maintain positive relationships with peers and adults. Strong relationships help children feel safe, confident, and ready to learn. They also support skills such as communication, problem-solving, and self-control. At school, counselors work with scholars to practice skills like listening, taking turns, using kind words, respecting personal space, and resolving conflicts in healthy ways. These skills don’t always come naturally and often need explicit teaching and practice—especially after long breaks or changes in routine. How Families Can Support Positive Relationships at Home Families play a powerful role in helping scholars strengthen these skills. Here are a few simple ways you can help: Model positive communication. Let your child see you using calm words, active listening, and respectful problem-solving. Practice conversation skills. Encourage turn-taking, staying on topic, and using kind words during family discussions. Talk through social situations. Ask questions like, “What could you do if a friend doesn’t agree with you?” or “How can you ask for help respectfully?” Praise effort, not perfection. Notice and acknowledge when your scholar tries to use positive behaviors, even if it’s not perfect yet. Teach calm-down strategies. Deep breathing, taking a short break, or asking an adult for help are all healthy ways to manage big feelings. When scholars receive consistent messages at school and at home, they are more likely to use these skills successfully. If you have concerns about your child’s peer relationships or would like support, please feel free to reach out. Counseling services are here to help every scholar grow socially and emotionally. Thank you for partnering with us as we support positive relationships and a successful school year. Warmly,Zemira Mulasalihovic, School Counselor